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What man likes in women



Humans are the most complicated creature on the earth and their likes and dislikes also change with time. Basics of liking and disliking of all humans are almost same.  
This article has come to light due to the effort of my close friend whose tag line is “Beauty lies in the eyes of beholder”. Every thing that god has created is unique and has its own beauty at its specified place. Some time we should live for the happiness of others and less for ourselves. Life has its own way of tackling us so we should follow the real flow of life. But some time running out of the comfort zone, helps in getting good things in life.
Women with independent thought and inspirational content
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Everyone needs a colleague in the form of wife or girlfriend and if this lady is independent with her thought then this is really a surplus in the life of both couple. I don't think that decision making is the part of man's life and it is equally important for man and women. If a girl is giving up her right of taking decision of right or wrong after falling in to relationship, then this is wrong at every aspect. How is this possible that her man will always be right in making decisions.
In reality both becomes the part of each other’s life . So we can say that they become a single soul of two brains. So decisions should be most probably right at almost every time because of the  collective effort of two brains. That’s why a lady with independent thought can be the magical chirag to help her man to make a better life filled with faith and hope. 
A man likes a lady who can inspire him in the time of depression and who could help him to cope up with the up and downs of the life. Ever since the birth of human (Man+ Women), they (Venus Vs Mars) always search a counterpart,with whom they can share each and every thing and whose presence make them to forget every pain of the life. 
Man thinks that whenever his lady senses the depression or tension through which her man is passing through, she can act as a tension buster and can sound like a soul mate like (few soothing sentences) “ Don't worry Dear/Honey (what ever the love word she uses for her man), This is the life and up & downs are the part and parcel of the life and But don't worry and always remember, I am also with you and I will be with you at every step of your life and  we will share and fight with all odds together. You are not alone, me too is the part of  your struggle and Listen - if there is a problem then there is a solution available if we work hard to find it." These simple sentences do the miracle in the life of man. Men are like Lord Hanuman, once you help them to remember their power, they can do anything for their ladies. Man always search a lady who can have her faith and trust in him and who makes him to believe that she loves him and want to be with him all her life with the singularity of love in the duality of physical senses. A lady who use to say “I will be alright if you will be with me, if this happens, nothing wrong will happen with us”. 
A lady with playful nature: Playful nature of a ladies always intend man to connect with them. A lady with fun in her every words she speak with her man and a good sense of humor connect a man better with his lady. So being playful in a relationship is always a better thing to sustain a life long relationship. 
Maturity; Happiness :
Life is full of odds and a couple can’t be in state of happiness all their life and some time some misunderstanding creeps in to their life and This is the most crucial time to show the maturity in their though means time to handle the situation. At this moment both couple wants to hear the reality behind the misunderstanding and at first glance both wants to short it out. At this point of time man wants to listen from his lady the truth and want to see the honesty and authenticity. Man never wants to be criticized or blamed by his lady. Once the reality of fact come to light, they both come to know the way to resolve the misunderstanding. This shows the maturity of couple and it also intends them to be happy that they have got what they have thought in their dream.
Man never want to listen the words like “never and always” for example "you always do the ......crap.......... and you have never …..”. 
Commitment and faith: Men are never scared of commitment but of failing in love. Since the man has been given more privilege by the society so chances of mistake is also greater and so of the tongue slip. So for better love life, Ladies should avoid the mistakes of man. If there is some disastrous mistakes that mean to be discussed should be discussed in a peaceful manner.
Men are known as the geek in the realm of love showing, they don’t know how to show the affection and ladies normally misunderstand and they starts blaming their man for their careless behavior and raise their finger against their caring nature.ladies are the machine of expectation and all their life they remain in the fairy tale...in which  they want to see their man a magician  with all kind of skill and full of wealth. But ladies don’t feel that expectations act as rust in love and it corrodes the love in their life. Whenever their men do not fall right on their expectations, they start blaming their man . But they don't see how hard their man is trying to bring happiness and love in their life.
Since the world has changed and ladies are also rubbing their shoulder with the men to make this world more beautiful. So the stress of office and home is  killing the love between their life and they start running in rat race of world while forgetting the reality of life that is LOVE.
Men are more emotional creature than women and they have a heart of child but the muscle of giant and due to this they always favor their ladies and try to keep them happy. But errors are the part of life so forgiveness should be their in life. On the other hand girls are the symbol of tenderness and beauty but they have a heart and memory of steel and they act as the checkpoint in the life. So men should also be ready for litmus test all their life.


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