Ans of this question is YES. But after long time This is possible.Because Time is the best healer of any kind of wound.
At first let me introduce "What is Break-up ".
Breakup is known as the end of a Relationship and known as the beginning of mourning and healing.
There are two way to come out of the Relationship 1) Mutual 2) Due to cheating.
When breakup is mutual.Moving from the relationship seems very easy and in this situation both remain in touch even after the breakup.
But in Second case person who ended things may be dealing with guilt and feelings that they may have made a mistake. In this breakup people live in guilt, first coming out of this relationship seems very tough and second and very much tough thing is to live without someone ,they still in love with.These are few things that help people to remain in stand still condition and can help to come out of the grief of break-up.
1) Avoid the former love. In few week of your break avoid those place where your former could be.
2)Share and talk to your close friends and see movies with your friends: Just vomit all your feeling before your friends.It will help you from coming out of breakup trauma
3)Weep in your private places: Tears are known as the best soother from any kind of grief.If you can.
4) Keep yourself away from all the gifts and place where you have visited or have spent some time together.
5) Try to remember all those thing that your ex has done wrong in the relationship.
In most of the cases people come close to their Ex because they still feel something good can be happened and they can resume their relationship once again and they still hope something can rekindle their love life once again. In case of girls.when they meet with the beau of their friend .they normally try to compare the beau of their friend with their present or Ex. In all these cases they start feeling a kind of attachment with the action of their Ex and then they try to be friendly with their Ex and here a new era of relationship takes place. Because in 75% cases they again fall in the love and they start dating once again.
People who are still friends even after their break-up are those who are still in love with each other. Because they both know each others' like and dislikes and they know when he/she uses to go on someplace and what he/she uses to do when he/she is in distress. In this condition both come together and try to pursue each other as a good friend. Because they still have many thing common like reading same kind of book, taking same coffee from the same shop and they still have the same common friends.In this case friendship is possible even after break-up.
Few Steps that can link you up as a good friend even after the break-up
1) Friendship after breakup comes. if you both have a genuine reason of break-up and You try to convey the reason of break up in a peaceful way and show the willingness to remain as a friend but if you are cheating on your former then never expect the friendship in turn
2) If you come out of the relationship. but you can conceal your other half that he/she was not happy with this relationship and this was hurting him/her then chance of a good friendship is there.
3)If your relationship is on rock then try to resolve it as a friend and try a common distance with your other half gradually this relationship will turn into a good friendship without any breakup fights.
4) Never take the way of phone or sms for the breakup. Always try to justify why you want to move on.
These are few thing that is coming out in my mind. Might be thousand of things will be in your mind. So your feedback is needed for the better improvement.
Best of Luck
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