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your thanks and sorry hurt me a lot

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Hello friends I am back with my new post “your thanks and sorry hurt me a lot”
What you feel when your lover or your relative or your close friends start feeling sorry for everything they do wrong. I don’t know what u feel but I feel sorry for me .Because this sorry word hurts me a lot and I start feeling a deep cramp in my heart due to the sore test of this sorry .I never want to listen sorry from my close friends and also with my people with whom I use to live .Because Vivekananda had once told
 “ every words have its own effect on the speaker .so always try to speak the positive words, and  never try those words ,which have  any relation with  agony ,anxiety, and dislike “
I think one should acknowledge their mistake not by saying “sorry” but by saying I will not commit this again in the future. I think this word will also have the same effect what sorry word has.
 I don’t want thanks and sorry from my people with whom I love or with whom I use to share my ideas. Sorry and thanks  are made for the stranger not for the friends .but if you feel some odd feeling then start saying thanks and sorry to your friends and I am pretty sure that one day this will push you away from your friends .Due to this I hate these words from my people whom I love and care .If you are with me then everything I am doing for you should not be taken as the work but as my  responsibility and as my affection .But when any one say thanks and sorry then I feel that they are paying for my responsibility in  term of thanks .this is my idea and I am not asking you to follow this because everyone has their own rights to pursue with their own perception and this is mine .
I am telling you the truth of sorry, when I listen the word sorry then I start feeling sorry and this makes me weak and it pours a lousy feeling in my mind. When someone’s mind starts feeling sorry it means the physical and mental both kind of strength starts attenuate .If this attenuation stands for long time then this cause a great stress which  heart can’t handle  …this may cause the nerves break down but don’t be scared I am just joking. But this is utterly true in every aspect of life .so don’t play with the sad thoughts of sorry.
Due to this I have developed a switching methods .If you feel that someone is making some harsh comment for you then switch of your ears for some time and never make your friends to know that you are not listening what they are delivering to you . But most of the time I never know when I have to switch
this method .this is really interesting na ……but better method is  ,starts ignoring all sore comments of the friends .
One day one of my best friend started saying sorry on chat and I was just astonished why she was saying these hurting words to me .then she said I have bothered you a lot when you had visited me last time .But I didn’t remember, how she had bothered me either by sitting beside me or by giving me the best moment of my life or by walking besides me a long distance by sharing the heat of virgin sunlight without saying a words or by giving me the chance to chuckle with her. If she feels sorry for all above things then I should feel sorry for her smiling face that I had not seen since last 8 years or for the love that I had reared in my heart since my childhood or for the kind of  friendship that we have since last 14 years without any explanation   or for the  energetic discussion that use to kick me out from the gloomy world to the world of  happiness or  for stealing her  time  which we  have shared happily   .If you think that I should say sorry for all above then you are wrong how I can throw my heart out of my body, this is not possible for me to say  sorry for my happiest and most promising  moment     .how  I can feel sorry for the best moment of my life but if I do then  what will be left with me to live with…..Actually I have not steal the time but the  love that I deserve  ..I love you the way you are and the way you talk… so don’t lessen the beauty of my love and friendship by saying sorry. It hurts me a lot…………………………
But I am making one more request that don’t take my love and friendship as the crap in the dustbin. I don’t know what you think all about this but I am always ready to share my happiness with my friend and I think, you are also one of them. Friendship is the best achievement in the life of a human .I am making it clear that my friends are my inspiration and in other words they are heart and blood of my veins .So how one can separate the blood from the body .Due to this I am pretty sure that no one can break my unflinching faith in my friends And I am requesting you not to say sorry to me for any kind of thing. I hate this word because I love you whatever you are, I will never mind if you don’t …   

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